Updated: Mar 6
I write all this now, not for me and not for my kids, but for my kids father and their grandfather. I pray to God "unka mangal ho aur unhe sadbuddhi do bhagwan" or if anyone of you can be that godly person and put some light in them for their well-being....
Nabha, my daughter didnt want to continue her school and wanted to do homeschooling. I supported her and stood by her. Blame came on me that i brainwashed Nabha and removed her from school.
Nabha ran Marathons but now she is into yoga, including yogasana, suryanamaskar and dhyan. I was blamed again. One common friend said that he was told that i was using Nabha to take revenge.
Now Nabha was threatened to be killed by her father and father and his girl friend or whoever he sleeps with abused her, Nabha locked herself in the house and didnt allow her father to enter the house. Nabha told everyone how she felt about her father and everyone blamed me and think that i have put negativity in her and that I have hypnotized her.
Nabha is very mature and wise to understand and deal with things. She talks negatively of her father in spite of I telling her to forgive and forget. Nabhas father put in others mind that i have hypnotized Nabha and I am using Nabha to take revenge against her father.
My bearing capacity finished after 16 years of marriage and after being physically abused on the road, i left my husband with my kids and a domestic help.
I started settling without husband and got support of my parents. To break me from my parents, false filthy messages were fabricated that i run a prostitude institute and provide girls, and these messages were sent by my husband to my family and friends. I was blamed of being a prostitute.
While i was gone for my job, the kids were taken away from my place when kids were with the maid. The blame came on me that i left kids to do debauchery.
My husband had a girlfriend and he lied and hided and roamed with her. After that when i made few male friends and was planning a trip with them then again i was blamed and was hit too.
My kids were kidnapped and turned against me. I stayed alone for 9 years and am fighting for justice in the court and still the fight is on. For 7 years almost my daughter hated me but now she knows the truth and she loves me and we are connected again. For past two and half years almost, we, means my kids and myself had to hide and meet because if their dad would come to know that kids behaved well with me or they met me, then kids would be harrassed. I couldn't understand and digest that why should kids have the pressure and mental stress to meet their mother?
My kids father wanted me back when i left him after 16 years of our marriage. He tried several cunning and cruel tricks to possess me back. But like sand in hand, more strongly you try to hold and more it will escape from your hands, same happened with me. For 16 full years i had allowed him to fool me which also gave him confidence that he can fool me for ever. But every woman has a limit and like a tea-bag, her strength is only known when she is dropped in hot water. The hit on the road was my limit.
He wanted to take his revenge on me for leaving him and didnt give me divorce for 9 years now. He brings home his girlfriend who claims herself his wife which is illegal, and comes home and sleeps with him in front of the kids and in front of kids grandfather and other family members. And this illegal wife of kids father abuses the kids and defames me in front of the kids who are still minor and kids father supports her. When my daughter says that her father girlfriend has no business here in this house, he threatens my daughter and says that he will cut her arms, legs and will kill her.
My daughter felt threatened and she called me to stay with them and i came to stay with them. Now my husband has another wife or girlfriend or whatever and so he wants to remove me from here. Kids father now cant turn kids against me and so now is using kids grandfather against me. Now one last pawn and last hope is remaining, that is kids grandfather and so he is being used to satisfy his inner revenge. I don't wish to defame anyone here. But have a sincere request and good wishes for the goodness of one and all.
God is with us and making us stronger and braver day by day. Since 4th Nov, i have been to police station 6 times for complaint, called police at home 3 times, met our CP, been to court with kids, visited advocates and also our govt. Earlier the police were managed but later the truth prevails and only the truth will prevail and proper action was taken.
For me, my kids security and safety matters as a mother but even before that, truth and dharm matters. And there is concern for those who are good but who support the adharm like Bhishm pitama or Dronacharya. In the end, only the truth stays, dharm stays and adharm goes.
As Bhagwad Geeta shloka says:
यदा यदा हि धर्मस्य ग्लानिर्भवति भारत ।
अभ्युत्थानमधर्मस्य तदात्मानं सृजाम्यहम् ॥४-७॥
Whenever there is a decline in righteousness and an increase in unrighteousness, O Arjun, at that time I manifest Myself on earth.
So, if there is any godly person or any messenger of God, to put some light in them, it will help remove the dust from the glasses and clarity will come. Hatred can be easily removed if only one gets the true knowledge, if one gets clarity and the consequence will be love, happiness, peace, joy, strength and purity.
Director, ME Holistic Centre